They are more focused on extroverted senses (which mean the physical world rather than their inner feelings and emotional needs).
Not all situations will end the same way, afterall.
Instead of thinking about the air pollution that is causing that beautiful sunrise, just revel in the beauty of the colors in the sky.
This may take a few tries but if you can help them enjoy the relationship more and get in touch with their emotions, you will be in for a treat.
think link flair is a good idea and makes it easy to quickly identify the type of discussions you want to read. Every once in a while there's a flare up of people asking for hands on moderation.
I've said this from the very start when I was brought on as a moderator to do garbage duty with the spam queue and to add to the sidebar: I really don't care to police content, nor do I think omfgninja does.