Is there racism in dating

Do I hold some anger or hate just because they are Latin?

Simply put, we are generally not compatible and thus for the sake of simplicity, I just don’t look at them anymore. That is not to say that I would never date a Latin woman if we matched, really, REALLY well. Since personally, I do not care about the colour of the skin of my partner, what I care is that we are compatible and that we both find each other attractive on multiple levels.

By distilling dates down to a profile picture and a swipe, Tinder encourages users to act on their knee-jerk reactions, and that lightning fast process lights up corners of our minds we haven’t fully grappled with as a society.

Black women and Asian men make up two demographics that have been long stigmatized as not-ideal sexual and romantic partners. It’s that the app compiles data on the quick preferences, and prejudices, of millions around the world, exposing an uncomfortable and racist reality.

–Tristan Thompson caught cheating on Khloe Kardashian with 2 women– And the site itself is just as troubling, with references to “white genocide” and the “main solutions” to this so-called problem.

According to the 20 Hollywood Diversity Report, minorities “remain underrepresented on every front.” They’ve reported that “more than half of films had casts that were 10% minority or less.” (The Every Single Word Spoken project is a great illustration of this.) Hollywood is also hot. The problem is that no one is inundating us with hot Asian guys, or hot black women who aren’t Kerry Washington. Studies have shown that we are attracted to what we know and are used to, but as Deborah Ward writes, “Repeated exposure to certain people will increase our attraction toward them.” This means that a conscious change in behavior will impact subconscious desires. Whether workplaces to their goals of diversity is another, much longer, discussion, but the guidelines are there. But somehow, dating someone based on their skin is not.The ad also specifically warns white women: “Dear women of the West: Without white children we will perish.” –After deplorable Roseanne Barr fires shots at Black-ish our writer is ready to throw hands The ad is gross in so many ways, from its racism to its sexism and everything in between, and the internet rightly called Reddit out for allowing it to run.But after all the backlash, Reddit only offered this semi-apology: It was an accident.“White women prefer white men to the exclusion of everyone else — and Asian and Hispanic women prefer them even more exclusively.” “Men don’t write black women back.” Their gay data reads the same: “Blacks get fewer responses.” Have you closed your browser and crawled into a hole to live out the rest of your days unencumbered by society and its bullshit yet?As is protocol with sweeping epidemics, people should start by honestly talking about the problem (see: for suggestions).

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