I’ve married a Filipina girl and now have two children, with a third on the way.
In addition to my own experience, I’ve also watched dozens of relationships between Filipina girls and Western men unfold.
I’ll give you the pointers you need to avoid these traps later in the article. Even when things go really well, some things can go very wrong. I know of several situations where this was the case, my own included. Dating websites don’t let girls sign up if they’re under 18.
In my case, there is a very common situation that exists with Filipinas who are looking for foreign men. It is important to take note that in the Filipino mindset, it is not shocking. My wife and I typically will entertain foreigner men who come to date our friends or family. If a than that and wants to sign up anyways – they will.
There are a very high percentage of Filipina girls who are lesbians that pursue men online – for no other purpose than to milk them for money.
From my experience, I’ve seen this destroy a few men’s lives.
He stayed in the Philippines longer to work the situation out, spending all of his money. Since then I’ve kept my eye on this girl’s attempts to scam and have rescued another guy from her clutches before it was too late.
This is just one of a few lesbian horror stories I could share.
Average wages over here for an inexperienced young girl may be 0 USD per month for a full time job.
In one case I’m aware of, a guy from California came here to marry a girl.
Up until that point, the man was being used for money.
It would be infinitely naive to think that a Filipina girl who is 15 to 30 years younger than you would consider it equitable if you are unable to provide either stability or an improvement in lifestyle.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not painting all Filipina girls out to be gold diggers. Her family will need a little assistance now and then.