However, if she doesn't at least give you a blowjob by date #2, #3 at the latest, there are better investments out there.
Anyway, subtly find out her own personal romantic dream, and play-act it.
No girl is perfect, but most of them like to please a man so you can change the one(s) you have to fit your needs. Girls like to get close to their guy, and "communicate." But later, if you break up, she might try and get back at you so for crissake don't let her know anything she could use or spread to others.
Girls love the "bad boy." They hope they can "reform" him, or they're a case of point #11 above. Invent deep intimate stuff you can tell her in bed, she'll go for it.
(It alters your blood type.) Almost all girls have one.
In 90% of cases it's the knight in shining armour, the handsome prince or the tall, dark and handsome mysterious stranger.