That said, no matter what you want, or whether you’re looking to sleep with someone you’ve known for five years, or someone you just met five hours ago, there are a few constant preliminaries that you should take care of beforehand to make sure that the experience is safe, comfortable, and happy.
There is, of course, no failsafe way to make sure that you only have positive, multi-orgasmic, flowers-and-rainbows sexual experiences; Sometimes you can do everything “right” and still end up in bed with the wrong people.
Also think about issues like food preferences—is your partner a hardcore vegan and you are a dyed-in-the-wool carnivore?
He or she might prefer that you brush your teeth before coming over.
That said, there are some simple, practical measures you can take that will help to ensure that a good time is had by all.
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