But lately there have been some problems in your life because of your sexual habits.
Maybe you’re starting to wonder if you have some sort of a problem.
When I was in the process of getting my second divorce, I was seeing a therapist. I got along with him well enough that I decided to do something new: I was going to be honest.
This time I wasn’t going to pay someone to sit there and listen to me lie.
I told him about how I was having affairs, how I couldn’t stop.
How everything I did was designed to either get me laid or indulge my kinks, and my kinks were getting more extreme by the day.
If you manage to stay employed, you are constantly broke, and you get two credit cards your wife doesn’t know about so you can keep up the appearances you need to with your girlfriends.
Perhaps, you were doing great at your job, but you got fired after getting caught in your office beating off to porn.
Maybe you really love your wife, but she dumped you after catching you having sex with the babysitter.
You just spent your mortgage payment at the strip club, or you just gave your credit card number to your dominatrix.
If you are doing things that are going to screw you over in the future, and you KNOW they are going to screw you over in the future, then your sex life has crossed the line and is now officially a problem. There are a myriad of different things that people do to get off, and whether or not you like to be tied up, or walk your girlfriend on a leash isn’t the issue.